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Wednesday, October 29, 2003

Had to Share this with my readers

THE CAB RIDE - Author Unknown


Twenty years ago, I drove a cab for a living.

When I arrived at 2:30 a.m, the building was dark except for a single
light in a ground floor window. Under these circumstances, many drivers
would just honk once or twice, wait a minute, then drive away.

But, I had seen too many impoverished people who depended on taxis as
their only means of transportation. Unless a situation smelled of
danger, I always went to the door. This passenger might be someone who
needs my assistance, I reasoned to myself.

So I walked to the door and knocked. "Just a minute", answered a frail,
elderly voice.
I could hear something being dragged across the floor. After a long
pause, the door opened. A small woman in her 80's stood before me. She
was wearing a print dress and a pillbox hat with a veil pinned on it,
like somebody out of a 1940s movie.

By her side was a small nylon suitcase. The apartment looked as if no
one had lived in it for years. All the furniture was covered with
sheets. There were no clocks on the walls, no knickknacks or utensils on
the counters. In the corner was a cardboard box filled with photos and
glassware.

"Would you carry my bag out to the car?" she said. I took the suitcase
to the cab, then returned to assist the woman.

She took my arm and we walked slowly toward the curb. She kept thanking
me for my kindness.

"It's nothing", I told her. "I just try to treat my passengers the way I
would want my mother treated".

"Oh, you're such a good boy", she said.

When we got in the cab, she gave me an address, then asked, "Could you
drive through downtown?"

"It's not the shortest way," I answered quickly.

"Oh, I don't mind," she said. "I'm in no hurry. I'm on my way to a
hospice".

I looked in the rear-view mirror. Her eyes were glistening.

"I don't have any family left," she continued. "The doctor says I don't
have very long."

I quietly reached over and shut off the meter. "What route would you
like me to take?" I asked.

For the next two hours, we drove through the city. She showed me the
building where she had once worked as an elevator operator. We drove
through the neighborhood where she and her husband had lived when they
were newlyweds. She had me pull up in front of a furniture warehouse
that had once been a ballroom where she had gone dancing as a girl.

Sometimes she'd ask me to slow in front of a particular building or
corner and would sit staring into the darkness, saying nothing.

As the first hint of sun was creasing the horizon, she suddenly said,
"I'm tired. Let's go now."

We drove in silence to the address she had given me.

It was a low building, like a small convalescent home, with a driveway
that passed under a portico.

Two orderlies came out to the cab as soon as we pulled up.

They were solicitous and intent, watching her every move. They must have
been expecting her.

I opened the trunk and took the small suitcase to the door.

The woman was already seated in a wheelchair.

"How much do I owe you?" she asked, reaching into her purse.

"Nothing," I said.

"You have to make a living," she answered.

"There are other passengers," I responded.

Almost without thinking, I bent and gave her a hug. She held onto me
tightly.

"You gave an old woman a little moment of joy," she said. "Thank you."

I squeezed her hand, then walked into the dim morning light.

Behind me, a door shut. It was the sound of the closing of a life.

I didn't pick up any more passengers that shift. I drove aimlessly lost
in thought. For the rest of that day, I could hardly talk.

What if that woman had gotten an angry driver, or one who was impatient
to end his shift?

What if I had refused to take the run, or had honked once, then driven
away?

On a quick review, I don't think that I have done anything more
important in my life.

We're conditioned to think that our lives revolve around great moments.

But great moments often catch us unaware-beautifully wrapped in what
others may consider a small one.

PEOPLE MAY NOT REMEMBER EXACTLY WHAT 'YOU DID, OR WHAT YOU SAID,

~BUT ~

THEY WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER HOW YOU MADE THEM FEEL.


We won't get any big surprise in 10 days if we share this with those we
care about but, we might help make the world a little kinder and more
compassionate if we keep this in our hearts.

Wednesday, October 22, 2003

Life

Life is interesting. Just when you think you have a handle on it, it changes on you and you have to readjust and figure out what to do.

Life is interesting. Every life is different. Yet we all do the same thing. We all get up, and go to sleep at night. But how we fill our day is different and therefore it affects who we are and who we want to be.

Life is interesting. When we least expect things, when we least desire changes in our life, when we are happy with the way life is headed....it changes on us.....

Life is interesting. We keep forgeting that it is not us who gets to control it. It is not us who has a say in life. It really is not up to us. Someone else has a good handle on our life and we just have to accept what is given.

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Friday, October 10, 2003

Erev YomTov

It has been a while since I have hocked. Don't get me wrong. There are plenty to write about, but as all good hockers, we have issue with time. And me too. I am having issues with time. Life is funny. Sometimes we are bored, or have nothing pertinent to tend to, so we do the things we want to, like blog...and other times...whoah. We have like the whole world crashing down on us. BH! We need excitement and things to keep us busy...otherwise, it can lead to trouble.

I cannot believe it is already Succos. RH and YK are already behind us and we are 15 days into our new year. Will our Tefillos be answered in the manner we hope? Will our wishes come true for us soon? Will this be the year THE YEAR for what we all really want? Who knows, but we all must continue to daven to Hashem and reinforce the decree and secure the year for us. Just because Yom HaDin is behind, does not mean that we are done, and that is it. Hashem is still waiting to hear our Tefillos and our requests and our tears and want us to continue to talk to him. That is why He planned the year the way He did. Just don't forget to Open your heart to Him and daven.

So, go finish cooking or putting up your succah. Help with the Erev YomTov preps...and don't forget to enjoy this Joyous YomTov. It is fun. Eating in the succah, BH the weather here is perfect for the succah. Not freezing just yet. Hashem is blessing us so far with great weather for the succah. No obstacles of pouring rain, and deciding if allowed to eat inside when we know the mitzvah is to eat in the succah. Do we remember to say Thank You to our Master for the little things?

Enough. Get off the computer and enjoy the preperations and the erev YomTov mitzvohs!
A gutten Yom Tov to all.
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